I’m absolutely delighted to welcome Gail Johnson to Dare To Bloom this week. The two of us share a love for the genre of memoir, and she clarifies that here. What do I mean? The deep, underlying belief that our stories matter, and that the sacrifice involved in telling our stories has the power to free us…and others.
As I’ve often quipped when facilitating a memoir writing workshop: “Our stories are the best gift we can give.” Enjoy, and Gail will give one free print copy of her memoir to a commenter. Thanks for participating!
Excited About Memoir
Nonfiction never entered my head until 2016 when I couldn’t shake the need to write my memoir.
Of course, I had no idea about writing a memoir. I had studied fiction for years. So how could I take those skills and write my story? Interestingly, the same skills I learned as a fiction writer can be used in nonfiction writing. I don’t claim to be an expert, but I would like to share why I’m excited about this genre.
But as for you, ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good, to bring to pass, as it is this day, to save much people alive (Genesis 50:20 KJV).
Memoir writing is cathartic, exhausting, and painful. But through my journey, I realized scars can be a life-changing testimony of God’s ability to heal the unspeakable. I found purpose in spite of my pain. My memoir wasn’t about my story alone, but HIS story through the heartache, healing, and recounting of my journey. As a Christian writer, my purpose was to share the redemptive story in my own way. Mine was memoir. Yours may be fiction. Either way, there is a reader in need of hearing the good news.
Memoir scared me. In memoir writing there is no hiding. The character was me. The story was mine. And the whole world would know the truth between the pages. But, I knew there was only one way to get to the heart of my reader. Vulnerability.
And from the feedback I’ve received from my readers, it was worth mining the deep.
As a reader, I love books that speak to my heart. As a writer, I wanted to speak to the heart of kindred spirits. What did I want to share with them? What did I want them to remember after reading my story?
Just as in fiction, I wanted to offer hope in the middle of my heartache. I wanted to give them a satisfying ending, and I did that by sharing the promises of God.
Talk no more so exceeding proudly; let not arrogancy come out of your mouth: for the Lord is a God of knowledge, and by him actions are weighed (1 Samuel 2:3 KJV).
Does this mean everyone must write a book to find closure? Not necessarily. But in my case, I needed to see the big picture. My thoughts and notes were scattered throughout multiple journals. When I had finished reading my manuscript, the words solidified the lessons learned. The simple task of closing a book took on a spiritual meaning.
So, if you have a memoir buried within you, I encourage you to write it. Connect the dots. Publishing it will be your choice. Write on, dear one.
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Gail, thank you for the opportunity to visit your lovely blog. I like what you said at the beginning of this article. “Our stories are the best gift we can give.” That is so true. Our stories have a purpose, and that purpose is to bring glory to our Father. Blessings, dear friend.
It was fun to turn my attention to memoir again, Gail. Thanks for visiting.
A great book. You know, when I write fiction, most of the characters are me too
Jennifer, I imagine that’s true with many stories. 🙂 Thanks for commenting.
This is a book that should be in every personal library, as well as every church library. If I could, I would give a copy to everyone I know. I am so thankful that Gail “dug deep” and wrote a book that would touch our hearts and encourage us of our own worth to God and His promises to walk through this life beside us, healing, molding, and reshaping us beyond our imagination & what we think possible. Thank you for highlighting Gail & her book!
You are SO welcome, Becky. I get to read Gail’s memoir soon and am really anticipating that experience.
Thank you for your encouraging words, Becky. God can certainly go beyond our expectations. Thank you for participating in the giveaway.
Was encouraged by this post, Gail. Seems like in so much of what I write characters often take on vulnerable parts of me.
I’m curious if you realize this as you write, Lynn, or later?
I’m glad your were encouraged, Lynn. That’s what writing is all about: encouraging others. Ah, vulnerability. The truth is our vulnerability is what teaches our readers. Others must see that we understand their pain. Don’t be afraid to show your vulnerable parts, my friend! Thanks for participating in the giveaway.
Loved the post and the list of items that would bring about an excellent memoir. Thanks for sharing. Would love to read it soon.
Loved your fabulous memoir, Gail. I agree, it’s scary when you’re the main character in your own story. In fiction it’s easier to hide, hehe. You’re an inspiration for me to write my own memoir someday.
Karen, thank you for stopping by and for your sweet words. Hope you get to write that memoir soon! I’d love to read about the miracles God has performed in your life, my friend. 🙂
Carole, thank you so much for your encouraging words. And thank you for participating in the giveaway.
This book is so much more than a personal story. It speaks to anyone who has struggled to be the person God wants them to be–in other words, everyone.
Hi, Sandra. It’s good to see you here. Thank you for those kind words and for participating in the giveaway.
Thanks to Sandy, Carole, and Karen for coming.